i also get myself in these kinds of knots! i am trying to relax more about it this year.
i try to think in terms of – strong roots are beneficial for all plants, so it doesn’t harm to sow anything on a root day.
and flowers and fruit could be interchangable as one is dependent on the other
you can always try later to transplant and otherwise tend to things on their correct days, plus maria thun didn’t seem to care at all what days things were sown, only the transplant day.